Friday, September 16, 2011

Various and sundry stuff

Do you ever have one of those days where you feel like just letting it all out, no matter how ugly it is, no matter who you might hurt and/or no matter where the chips may fall?  I had one of those recently.  It was not a good day.  I've apologized to the person involved, but I still feel bad.  Just because I was having a bad day didn't give me the right to hurt someone else.  Now there is a rift in a relationship that may never fully heal.  No matter what "they" say, words DO hurt, and hurt deeply.  Especially when it's someone you love.

No further confessions on the above.  Just wanted to put it out there so the next time you feel like blasting someone and saying things better left unsaid, you will remember me and my situation and will stop yourself.  Consider this my PSA for today.

Moving on now. 

I have been doing quite a lot of shopping lately.  Not buying, mind you, but shopping.  Perhaps looking or browsing would be a better term for what I've been doing.  Over the past week I've spent, hmmmm, maybe $100 total for a few pieces I really want for our home.  After living here for 6 weeks I have a good feel for the house and how it should be decorated. 

Over the years I have accumulated many decorative items which have moved with us quite literally from sea to shining sea and now into the heartland (again).  I am selective which ones I use as each home has its own personality and its own "vibe" for lack of a better word.  Not to mention how we change as we move and grow.  It's exciting and challenging and fun.

I have pictures! Wanna see??  OK!

Isn't this bird precious? This picture was taken in the antique shop where I found it.
The bird is handpainted carved wood. The saucer is an antique the owner found on a buying trip to England. 
She didn't have the matching cup for the saucer.  Discount! :) Total for the 2 pieces was under $10.
They are displayed in the opening between our living and dining areas. 
Like this:
Sweet, isn't it? 
I love being able to see it from both rooms. 

The next item was displayed on a chair by a gorgeous pillow.
The chair and pillow did NOT fit my budget, but this tray, for $20, did.

After bringing it home, I decided to redo the grouping on my kitchen bookshelf.
Now it looks like this:

This grouping is evolving as I'm not satisfied with it yet.
But, it's getting closer every day. 

The next purchase was one I went back for the following day.  I took pictures and showed it to my hubby that night and explained where and how I want to use it. He liked the idea and agreed to the price - a mere $65 for this antique curio stand, which we later found came from the estate of Sadie Jo Black.  Ms. Black was the Head of Home Economics Dept at Baylor University for many years.  The shop owner acquired this piece at Ms. Black's Estate sale.  That's all we know about it other than it's absolutely darling and we are excited to have it in our home and as part of our family history now. 


It is currently in our living room helping take up wall space where more furniture will be soon, I hope.
Once the living room is completed, this piece will move into the kitchen/dining area.
It will be used to display some of my favorite family pieces of glassware.
Here are close ups of each shelf.
Notice the insets on the back of the piece and the drawer?  Aren't the precious?

This is a favorite relish dish from my Mom's house.
The cruette is something my Dad loves to collect.  He donated this to my first apartment.  I've never used it for its intended purpose.  However, I have displayed it many times over the years. 
The juicer was a wedding gift - to my parents 63 years ago.
I was thrilled when my Mom gave it to me. She has another one that's even older.
The salt and pepper shakers were a gift from my Grandmother Guttery when I was a teenager and decided to start a S&P collection. These were some of her first ones after she got married. 
I'm guessing they are probably 80+ years old. 
Precious to me, indeed.
The cup in front was my Dad's when he was a little boy.
He said it was in his Christmas stocking one year along with some candy and fruit and a couple other things.
When he found out I loved antiques and antique glassware, he gave it to me.
I was in my teens.  Come to think of it, it may have been a Christmas (or birthday) gift to me that year.  :)
The butter dish and creamer aren't antiques to my knowledge. 
But, they are special as my Mom gave them to me when I moved into my first apartment.

These shelves will be an ever changing display case in our home, depending on the season and my mood.


My hair was looking cute a couple days ago, so I had Patrick snap a shot of the back. 
As much as I love it short, I'm enjoying it as it gets a little longer and I can do different things with it.
This was a "good hair day". It looked better earlier in the day.  I'm trying to tame the curls instead of letting them have a ringlet riot all over creation as they do most days.  What do you think?  Should I cut it again or let it continue to grow?  It's a constant dilemma.

Today I attemtped more shopping for our bedroom.  We are having a mattress set delivered Tuesday which is a good time to purchase new bedding. I've been looking for a couple of weeks and finally found a set I liked, but wanted to check a few more stores.  As I found nothing I liked in those stores today, I purchased the one I saw a few days ago and brought it home only to find the sheet set was missing.  Granted it was on clearance and a reasonable price for the four pieces in the bag, but it was the principle of it!  Needless to say, I packed it into the bag and returned it to the store.  Now to continue looking for the perfect set. 

Thankfully, the day wasn't a total loss as I finally purchased a Welcome Mat.  I've been eyeing this particular one for a while and today decided it is the one to set the tone for entering our home.  It has the colors I want to use throughout the house.  Now to find more decorative items for the front porch that will echo the color scheme and theme.  Why do I believe that by the time I get it "just right" we will move? 

Enough for today.  I have many different topics in mind to write about soon.  Some of them dealing with my eldest son "flying" from the nest.  Some about finding my spot in a new community.  Some will be about future decorating/shopping adventures.  Some will deal with my evolving wardrobe.  Some will be about hair.  All will involve coffee.  :)

Speaking of coffee, yesterday I had the best cup of coffee in an adorable cafe/shop in Lorena, Texas called The Cheese Shop.  Not sure if it being made in a French press made a difference, but I am seriously considering buying one.  I bought a half pound of beans to brew at home as it was so delish.  The owner sells a variety of foodstuffs all from nearby areas.  However, he said he has to go to New Jersey to get his coffees.  The one I tried and bought yesterday is called Vermont Maple Crunch.  It is superb.  It has the lovely aroma of maple rising in the steam.  You taste it in the coffee, but it isn't sweet - unless you add sweetener.  I took mine with one splenda and one cream.  Perfection.  I sat and chatted with the owner - who makes his own cheese on site - while drinking the entire pot!  It was a fabulous cafe, a fabulous shop and a fabulous lunch and conversation.  I highly recommend the grilled club sandwich.  The queso blanca and mustard egg custard sauce gave it a certain something special. 

Oh...if you missed it in the above love for The Cheese Shop, today's coffee was Vermont Maple Crunch.  Not quite as special as yesterday (I think it's due to my slowly dying coffee maker) but still a satisfying cup of happiness.  I will brew it again and again. 




Thursday, September 8, 2011

Happy Day Indeed!

Most days are good days for me.  Well, except when I'm having one of those pity party days like I did recently.  But, all in all, it's a fair statement to say that, for me, most days are good days.  Well, today is a Happy Day Indeed.  When I checked the mail today there were TWO, count them - ONE, TWO - letters from Justin, our eldest son who is currently going through Air Force Basic Military Training (BMT).

Ahhhhhhh....  *BIG, HUGE, HAPPY Mommy sigh*......  It's so wonderful to hear from him.  To hold something he has held recently and to read the words of his heart as he shares with us his ups and downs from the first couple of weeks away from home.  He didn't hold back either, which we appreciated.  Even though it was hard to read how difficult this time is for him, it was also uplifting to see a few sentences down the page that he's making friends and certain things aren't "as bad as he thought it would be."  We miss him so much.  But, we are proud of him and the man he is and the man he is becoming.

So far, that's the highlight of my day.  It's going to take something exceptional to top getting two letters from Justin today.  Just thought I would share my heart on it for a bit.

I made cookies today for the boys after school treat.  They were so happy to come home to freshly baked cookies.  Yet again, I received the Mommy of the Year award from the boys as I made two kinds of cookies so everyone got a "favorite".  For Matthew I made Old Fashioned Southern Tea Cakes.  For those of you who went to Elementary school with me, these were the cookies my Mom always made for our class parties and decorated.  I didn't do that today as I chose the easy way and made drop cookies.  Much faster but still YUMMY!  For Daniel I made Chewy Peanut Butter Chocolate Chip cookies.  Patrick loves both, so he was happy too.  However, his choice of snack today was tortilla chips with peach mango salsa. :)

Coffee:  Yes, plenty.  A mix of Kona and Sam's Choice (was at the bottom of the bag of Kona, thus supplementing with the other).  It was actually very tasty.  Varied the creamers today between Italian Sweet Cream and Peppermint Mocha.  Couldn't make up my mind.  BTW, the cookies were fabulous with coffee. 



Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Frustrated!

So, I'm reading blogs belonging to my friends.  I want to comment. I attempt commenting.  Frustration abounds as I can not comment.  I finally had to create a new sign in for one (Debra) and another won't let me comment at all (Holly). To top that off, I can no longer comment ON MY OWN BLOG!  What really makes me crazy is I know it's my own fault. I was messing around with settings the other day and deleted a couple of things that had been allowed access to my profile, not realizing they allowed me to comment on blogs.  I have NO CLUE how to link them back to my profile.  I am frustrated. Very. 

Therefore, please do not be offended when I don't comment on your blogs.  I am reading.  I am trying to comment.  Really.  My hubby is my witness.  He's sitting right by me reading this as I type (which drives me crazy)....well, he stopped when I told him it was driving me crazy, but he heard me complaining about it.  Thus he is still my witness.  :) 

Know I love all my blogging friends and read your posts faithfully.  I will comment when I can....or text you....or something.... 

Now that I have vented my frustrations, I am off to wash the dishes and prepare to get up entirely too early tomorrow.  I have to take my van in for service bright and early in the morning.  *yawn*  Not looking forward to it, but it must be done.  Taking along two new books and possibly the laptop.

Tomorrow's coffee (the first one, at least) will be Starbucks.  After that, it will be something here at home.  Assuming I am not stuck there all day.  If so, I will have to find someplace nearby to drink coffee as I typically can't stomach the nasty coffee they have in service station waiting areas.  ICK.  *shuddering just thinking about it*

Today's coffee was the Sams Choice again with Italian Sweet Cream flavored creamer.  Tasty.  Very tasty.

Sunday, September 4, 2011

Sunday, Lovely Sunday!

Today is Sunday.  A day of bright, beautiful, blue skies and cooler temperatures.  Never thought mid 90s would be so.....comfortable?  Yes, comfortable.  Amazing how your perspective changes when the temps have been triple digits for weeks on end.  Here's looking forward to autumn!  :)

We attended another new church today.  I think we may have finally found "the one".  We loved the music and the message.  Checked out their tables in the foyer and found several different discipleship classes taught at a variety of times.  Talked with a couple different people there getting information about the church.  The kids liked what they saw and heard.  So, Wednesday, if nothing comes comes up, we will attend their mid week worship.  Assuming that goes well, we will be there early for Sunday School next week.  And, if that goes as well as we anticipate, we will have found our new home church.  I'm so happy.

I know what you are thinking.  What did I wear to church today?  This:

A LBD by H&M - love it!!
Luscious shoes by Alfani
Purse by 9 West

This afternoon was awesome.  We got a phone call from Justin!!  It was so fabulous to hear his voice.  Seems like it has been even longer than a week since we last spoke with him.  How I miss that son of mine.  He sounds homesick, but strong, and said it's very stressful.  I'm sure it is.  However, I know he will do well.  It was nice to hear  he "should've listened and gone to college." Yes, we parents DO know what we are talking about!!  I know that the day is coming - probably around the end of October at graduation - when he will be so glad of everything he went through....and he will forget ever saying the above.

Today I started a new project.  My plan is to write at least an hour per day.  Let's see if I can stick with it.  I did today and am very pleased with my progress.  Hubby read the beginning and said it was good.  Of course, that's his standard comment.  No complaints there!  However, I do need a reader who will give constructive criticism as needed.  I take it too personally when it comes from hubby. 

Coffee today has been lovely cups of Kona with a sprinkling of sweetener and plenty of cream.  Yum!

Happy Labor Day Weekend!  Be safe - no matter what you do!





Friday, September 2, 2011

The Van Chronicles

If you are my "friend" on Facebook you already know I had some problems today with the van.  I got up and did my morning chores and was ready to leave the house to grocery shop and generally waste time at a few stores.  I was barely a mile from the house when an alarm started chiming.  I quickly checked my dashboard and saw my engine temp was HOT.  Thanks to my Daddy, I have a LITTLE knowledge about engines.  Very little, but enough to know what to do.  I pulled over, lowered the windows, turned off the AC and turned on the heater and started letting the engine cool.  When it cooled enough, I drove home, parked on the street (level) and came into the house to text hubby and post on Facebook.  Nothing like sharing your grief and pain with the world.  Ha ha!

Once it cooled, I popped open the hood and took a look around:



Hmmmmm.....I don't see ANY fluid in the overflow tank thingie for the radiator......
Let's add some water.

Filled, tested and tried.  It's holding water!  I'm DONE!!

And, yes, I wore white Larry Levine capris and an H&M peasant top while working on the van. 
NO, I didn't get a bit of grease or dirt on them.
However, when I cooked dinner, I wore my apron. 
Seriously.


Photo credits go to Patrick.
The cooking shot was candid. 
 The van shots had to be recreated as I had no one  home to take pictures.  However, I really did work on the van in these clothes.....which were what I also wore to the football game tonight at hubby's school. 

BTW, did you see a little snippet of our neighborhood?  It's so pretty.  I love living here.


As for my headache, it must be from allergies.  I took an allegra this morning and once I got rid of the tiny headache that was just starting, I've felt fine all day.  Looks like I will be taking allergy meds daily again.  Not fun, but better than feeling horrible every day.  I'm just glad it didn't take me six months and 10 rounds of doctor visits to figure it out this time.  :)  

Have a great day.  Set your coffee pot now so it's ready in the morning when you awaken!  I'm heading off to prep mine now.  Will be doing a repeat of this morning's coffee.  Here's hoping I enjoy it as much tomorrow as I did today!!  I'm sure I shall. 

Thanks to the comments on my earlier post. For some reason, Blogger won't let me respond to the comments.  Weird.  So, I will comment now:   Debra, I have a Sams Club in town.  Will try your recommendation if they have it in stock on my next trip.  Peggy, thanks for the kind words.  Stress level is actually much lower than it has been in recent months.  Maybe it's a delayed reaction plus the allergies?  Who knows....  Dorothy, I'm also allergic to mesquite. Go figure, huh?  :)